We learn from a young age to look for stability in just about everything we do. After a while, stability becomes something we try to manufacture.

The problem with this is that is just doesn't line up with reality.

Transitions have a way of teaching lessons you don’t sign up for.

At first, they can feel disruptive or even painful. Like something's been taken from you. But if you stay with them long enough, you realize they’re shaping you in ways you couldn’t have planned yourself.

I. Be Firm About What You Want - This is something I've struggled with a bit throughout my life to be honest.